Look in your program menu. Go to start - programs - kaspersky anti-virus.
There should be things in there for scanning, for the monitor, etc.
Also, that little icon you see in the lower right corner... Right click on that for more options. Dink around with it. Push buttons. Just don't let it apply or accept any changes until you are sure what you are doing.
If you don't have a little icon in the lower right hand corner... reboot your computer. It should show up the next time you reboot or restart the computer. You won't have full-time monitoring until that icon shows up, either.
Well, it's good to get rid of the infected stuff. You may not have had to get rid of ALL her emails, but better safe than sorry, I guess.
And it's good that it was only the emails.
Now, have her get on the horn to everyone whose email address is stored on your computer, and warn them of a possible virus.
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