Thanks for the invite to come over and see how you all are doing. I think it's terrible what happened.
That said, the polijve was out of hand, IMO, but I read a lot of it without participating, and I don't fell scarred for having done so. Just turned off.
In many ways I wish I hadn't read so much of it because I was starting to develop ill feelings towards people whom I otherwise respected.
Anyway, I do feel there must have been a better way for them to cool things off a bit without the wholesale massacre. So I would be willing to participate in a quiet boycott for a given length of time, though I agree with splintie that it won't matter to TPTB. New people will come along and fill the void and life will go on. No one is irreplaceable.