Would I be offended? NFW. I am and I proudly admit it.

I am in no way wondering what I did, I prefaced the post with taking one for the team, I called a spade a spade or a dick a dicque.

What I was more interested in finding out is who decides the level of whack, and what are the parameters of whack...she shied away from having a real answer.

Then we got to talking about kids and dogs and all was cool, it's not her I need to track down, it's up the ladder.